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Friday 18 April 2014

Let us mind our own Business!

In our everyday lives we always interact with the people around us.  May it be during our transit to the office, while we are buying our lunch or doing our groceries.  When we interact it's easy to be kind. 

Well, imagine that you are driving to work and then it's very traffic and you are late.  Then you blame the traffic to the traffic enforcer who is "merely" doing his job and says that he is not doing things right?  Or imagine that you ordered your meal and it's been 15 minutes and your order is not yet served? Or you are simply experiencing a technical problem on your laptop and you blame it to the IT guy?

It's hard to be kind during these situations but let us all remember one thing first, to breath in and out three times.  After which we need to stay calm and understand the situation.  

Sometimes, we often think that things should always be at our advantage but that's not always the case.  We should also think that no one wants to be in a difficult situatuon and so instead of being hard on the situatuon or the people involved, we need to step back and think that "anger" will not do any good in any situation. Thus it's always better to be calm and explain things calmly to the people in that situation. 

Remember: 
We all went through something in our lives and it pays to listen to the words that are not said. 

Xoxo




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