My ultimate favorite Bible Verse is the one from 1 Corinthians 13:4.
It goes:
Love is patient.
Love is kind.
It does not envy, it does not boast.
It is not proud.
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no records of wrong.
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
It always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails.
I am a hypocrite if I say that my love life is perfect, it is not!
My husband and I made this conscious effort to always make things perfect in our own ways and we know that we are doing a great job at it.
We have been blessed to be married for the past five years and it seemed like we were engaged just two days ago and our wedding was yesterday. Time really fly so fast and if we are not enjoying this journey together then we wouldn't have stayed this long or wouldn't be able to share wonderful moments together.
Wedding is just the start --
Married life is not always a fairy tale like what we see on television.
It is a conscious choice to stay married, be in love and be happy with who you are with and what you have in life.
There will be moments where your love for each other will be tested.
I remember posting this picture of us some two years ago.
Taken in Penang Malaysia
Like any other ordinary couple out there, we have been through a lot (not all people know about it because we managed and will always do!).
Two months ago, we experienced not just a flat tire nor an empty gas but a total vehicle wreck! As if nothing was left and we had to get another set of ride to carry us in this journey called life. An adversity where we had one choice to make - face it with courage and strength!
Like any other accident happening on the road (or in the sky), being one of the co-pilot of this vehicle, I panicked, as if it's the end of the road (or sky) for me. As if there is no tomorrow and i will never be able to drive again. It was really a catastrophic experience for me. While for my co-pilot (Sweets), he managed to put his oxygen mask first and then placed my own oxygen mask to my face. He made sure that we will both be alright after this incident. Like what Arianna Huffington always tells us (from her book Thrive), whatever we do, we always have to put our oxygen masks first and then we can help others. This is what Sweets did for me.
We never imagined being in this situation and it made us realize several important things in life.
1. Life will never be fair - instead we have to make way to make it fair for us. Make it in favor of us and what we want to achieve in life.
2. Family will always be there - no matter what obstacle you encountered, even if you do not have a very close relationship with your family, the concern and sincerity of their actions will manifest even in their simplest ways.
3. Money is not all that matters - well practically speaking, it really does matter (how can we survive if we cannot eat or shelter ourselves) but my point is that even if you have all the money you can get, it will never give you the same (even an ounce of) happiness with what your family and close friends can give you.
4. Things happen for a reason - Walt Disney was not born successful, he was fired by a newspaper editor because "he lacked imagination and had no good ideas" but he didn't bother to linger on that thought, instead, persevered and worked hard to achieve who he is now.
5. Prayer and Faith in the Lord is the greatest form of weapon in winning any battle.
If you know me well, you know that I am a very positive person and I also realized (after what happened) that like any other person here on earth, I can also be fragile and weak. With the support that I got from the people who loves me (and my husband) we are slowly making it through the travesty.
Xoxo
It goes:
Love is patient.
Love is kind.
It does not envy, it does not boast.
It is not proud.
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no records of wrong.
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
It always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails.
I am a hypocrite if I say that my love life is perfect, it is not!
My husband and I made this conscious effort to always make things perfect in our own ways and we know that we are doing a great job at it.
We have been blessed to be married for the past five years and it seemed like we were engaged just two days ago and our wedding was yesterday. Time really fly so fast and if we are not enjoying this journey together then we wouldn't have stayed this long or wouldn't be able to share wonderful moments together.
Wedding is just the start --
Married life is not always a fairy tale like what we see on television.
It is a conscious choice to stay married, be in love and be happy with who you are with and what you have in life.
There will be moments where your love for each other will be tested.
I remember posting this picture of us some two years ago.
Taken in Penang Malaysia
Like any other ordinary couple out there, we have been through a lot (not all people know about it because we managed and will always do!).
Two months ago, we experienced not just a flat tire nor an empty gas but a total vehicle wreck! As if nothing was left and we had to get another set of ride to carry us in this journey called life. An adversity where we had one choice to make - face it with courage and strength!
Like any other accident happening on the road (or in the sky), being one of the co-pilot of this vehicle, I panicked, as if it's the end of the road (or sky) for me. As if there is no tomorrow and i will never be able to drive again. It was really a catastrophic experience for me. While for my co-pilot (Sweets), he managed to put his oxygen mask first and then placed my own oxygen mask to my face. He made sure that we will both be alright after this incident. Like what Arianna Huffington always tells us (from her book Thrive), whatever we do, we always have to put our oxygen masks first and then we can help others. This is what Sweets did for me.
We never imagined being in this situation and it made us realize several important things in life.
1. Life will never be fair - instead we have to make way to make it fair for us. Make it in favor of us and what we want to achieve in life.
2. Family will always be there - no matter what obstacle you encountered, even if you do not have a very close relationship with your family, the concern and sincerity of their actions will manifest even in their simplest ways.
3. Money is not all that matters - well practically speaking, it really does matter (how can we survive if we cannot eat or shelter ourselves) but my point is that even if you have all the money you can get, it will never give you the same (even an ounce of) happiness with what your family and close friends can give you.
4. Things happen for a reason - Walt Disney was not born successful, he was fired by a newspaper editor because "he lacked imagination and had no good ideas" but he didn't bother to linger on that thought, instead, persevered and worked hard to achieve who he is now.
5. Prayer and Faith in the Lord is the greatest form of weapon in winning any battle.
If you know me well, you know that I am a very positive person and I also realized (after what happened) that like any other person here on earth, I can also be fragile and weak. With the support that I got from the people who loves me (and my husband) we are slowly making it through the travesty.
Xoxo
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