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Sunday 24 February 2019

Dating Tips from a Stingy Person

It's still the Love month and this is the month were dates happen very often.  Who doesn't love date nights and cuddle time with our partners? Dating is an important aspect of a relationship because it deepens the bonding between two people and it gives an opportunity to get to know your partners well. 



Dating is not limited for couples, like husband and wives, boyfriend and girlfriend, partners or simply dating couples.. You can also date your parents, your siblings, your best friends or even your friends. Dating can be as glamorous as the royals or as simple as Fishball dates. 

First, we need to find out first the objective of the date.  In almost all of the cases, dates are ways to bond, to know people more, build connection, reconnect and most especially to show how much you care and love the the people you are dating.  

Let me ask you this. What gets in the way why we are unable to date the people that we love? I can think of two things: 

1. Not enough TIME
2. Not enough BUDGET

If it's TIME, this is easy to answer because if a person is important to you, you will MAKE time no matter how busy you are.

If it's MONEY, then this is why I am writing this blog.  I have been married for close to 9 years and I would like to share the tipid dates that my husband and I shared. Here goes: 

1. Movie nights at home - you may rent a CD or copy a movie to your USB and cuddle all you want while watching in your wide screen at home. 

2. Hike - when my husband proposed we hiked a few kilometers going up the mountain. 


3. Jogging - we actually went walkaton.  We were supposed to really jog, but I kept on talking so it slowed us down but it was a lot of fun. 

4. Kitchen Date - when someone is cooking, the other one is preparing the table for dinner.  You are both being productive and are spending time talking to each other. 

5.  Kite Flying - we only did it once but it was a lot of fun.  It would be good to create your own kites but as for me and Sweets we had to buy one for convenience sake. 

6. Biking - well this entails both of you having your own bikes, but if you don't, there are parks that offers bike rent.  This one you can definitely enjoy without the need to buy 2 bikes for this date. 


7. Sunset watching - we are lucky because there is a place near our house with a great view of the sunset.  It's a nice feeling to watch the sunset together. 

8. Gardening - we have a small garden at home.  When I am cutting the grass, my husband is watering the plants and while we were both busy with our greens we are having small conversations which definitely are meaningful. 

9. Walking your dogs - not only have you bonded with your partner, you also bonded with your furr babies. 

10. Staying at home and making all those little chismis and making fun of each other. 

There are a lot of tipid dating ideas, we just have to be creative and go back to your objective.  No matter how fancy or simple your dates are, if you are meeting your objective then you are having a successful dating time. 

Xoxo






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